Why You Shouldn't Throw Any of Yourself Away

What a bad day this is going to be!  Jane thought to herself as she struggled to feel positive for the day.

Jane had a question in her heart which she seemed to have no answer.  This issue looked simple but after two weeks of soul searching, Jane realized that this problem wasn’t as easy as she thought.

This puzzle had been draining her energy quite recently and was the reason for her drowsy attitude at work. she had been pondering over this challenge but her brain `did not have a single clue

Like a stalker, this problem kept haunting her. It made her feel that life wasn’t worth living. Everything she cherished was suddenly on the verge of becoming a huge void.

Now, what could be the issue that seemed to make Jane lose her peace?

Jane couldn’t Figure out Her Unique Purpose.

Why is it so hard for me to discover my passion? Jane wondered.

She had been told that to live an intentional life, one must have a unique purpose.

It is this ONE purpose that would make her life worth living and create her epic story which might turn out to become a legacy for others to follow.

Jane had begun her journey to find her epic purpose but soon discovered a problem, she had so many passions and couldn’t simply pick a unique purpose.

This bothered Jane so much. While her friends easily found their unique purpose and were doing great in their community, Jane would start with one passion and end up jumping to another barely after a few months.

Jane tried everything she could and even turned to others for help but the advice she got wasn’t clicking with her.

Alas, Jane felt torn apart and still pondered on the question;  How can I find my epic purpose? 

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Loving yourself

Just thinking about finding your purpose makes you feel uneasy and sweaty.

You have got one or more passions and just like Jane, you have got to pick and choose between which one is your No. 1 Purpose.

This is making you feel pressured and You are just about to throw all your other passions away just to discover that one vision and purpose.

But what if you knew that by combining all your passions, you are on the path to your unique purpose.

What if you knew that by throwing any of yourself away, you are hurting your existence instead of loving yourself.

Still in doubt, here is why you should not throw any of yourself away :

1  You are Way Beyond a Single Purpose

Having a single purpose or passion is a cool thing but what defines you is beyond your purpose.

You aren’t weird and there is nothing absolutely wrong with you. You are only trying to connect your dots looking forward instead of connecting them looking backward.

Maybe you have been told that you need a single purpose to make a difference and you probably feel that this is the direction that you need to follow; a unified purpose and vision.

Just know that it is You that makes the difference and this is what makes your purpose so unique.

It is because of You that your purpose does exist and your existence is what creates your reality.

So don’t stop loving yourself just because you can’t figure out your single purpose. Instead, think about this and you will find your answer:

Isn’t it odd that you allow the World to define your existence and craft your unique passion?

Why do you allow other people  to shed off all of your passions just to create a unified YOU?

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2. It is Those Parts of You Combined Together That Makes The Difference

Have you ever cut off a couple of your passions only to focus on one but after a while you start to feel pain inward and so awkward? If so, you are not alone.

Kleon in ” Steal Like an Artist” narrates how he was obsessed with song writing and playing in bands but decided to focus on his writing. This made him experience the Phantom limb pain. The more he focused on his writing, the more the pain got worse.

It was not until he got back to playing in the band that he became whole again and that inward pain was all gone. The best thing is that he got more creative with his writing.

It is these passions in your life that makes the difference. When you take any of these passions away, you gradually tear yourself apart.

All the passions and talents that you possess, are the experiences that will shape the future and cause a huge transformation for your world

So don’t be worried; combine as much passions as you have and go make a difference. 

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3. You Get to Write Your Own Culture


Do you that no Culture or Norm has ever existed without You? 

Though it seems that Society tries so hard to create a standard for living an intentional life, you are beyond this limitation as you get to write your own story and create your own Culture.

You are the criteria for how Culture turns out. So don’t be burdened by the opinions of your friends, family, and co-workers.

Don’t allow external voices to infiltrate your mind and make you become an impostor.

You have the keys to write your own story. So go do just that. Get on with your life and write your own story; write your legacy.

Over To You

Would you like to follow your passions or would you risk them just for a single purpose? Take Care.

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