Are You Missing The Boat with Your Own Life

Are You Missing the Boat with Your Own Life?

Are You Missing The Boat with Your Own LifeAre you so bound to yourself that you are missing the boat? Do you think that you don’t fit the big picture and consider yourself to be a space in your world? 

Here is Ramona to the rescue. Ramona is an author and a passionate blogger who believes in transforming people’s lives by bringing to light their unique purpose. She believes in the bridging the light; connecting you and humanity in a spirit of love and understanding.

If you visit her blog, you will see how much she has shed light to her world. She is really is an inspiration.

So over to you Ramona….


Not missing the boat with your own life means awakening to the dream in your heart, following its wise guidance and breaking free of the confines of your little self!

When you do this and get that your life is important— that you matter in the big picture—then you are set to make a difference in the world that no one but you can make. You are set to really get your life! Nothing is more satisfying; through tears and laughter, you can still look up and smile.

Awareness of my own dream developed over a period of several years. I had a sense of it but didn’t “have” it. One day, the result of a traumatic event in China, I awakened to it fully. I was so moved I cried.

Dancing in the Heart of the Dragon, a Memoir of China is one outcome; another is this website, in which I write personal blogs to encourage bridges of friendship and understanding between “us” and China; that is, initially. Now it’s to build bridges of light between “us” and all other places in the world.

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Your Heart as Compass


Follow Your Heart's Light

When you discover your dream and keep yourself aligned, your heart will serve as a compass; your way will be illuminated.

Your heart does not work through your head, so it’s important to notice and identify your feelings. Not good at it? Practice. As best as you can, develop a mindful, sensitive awareness of self and surroundings.

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A Swedish Movie Shows Us

A movie I saw recently shows a man who does not miss the boat with his life. He awakens to his dream and opens his heart to love. A new life is his.

The movie’s a Swedish gem, nominated for Best Foreign picture in the 2004 Academy Awards.

“As it is in Heaven” thoroughly entertained, deeply touched and potently stirred me. Maybe it will you too.

Open People's Heart With Music

I don’t believe in spoilers, so no worries in that regard. The movie is about Daniel (played by Michael Nyqvist), a world renowned musical conductor, who retires to his childhood home in northern Sweden, after suffering a heart attack.

Broken emotionally and physically, he needs time and space to heal. At the same time he’s pretty lonely.

He reluctantly accepts a request to “just listen” to the church choir, comprised of people from the village.

As can be expected from a person whose life passion is music, Daniel agrees to “help out.” He then ends up accepting the job of “cantor” (choir leader).

How Daniel manages to “not miss the boat” is revealed. Vulnerability, passion and courage are key. Through these he finds himself fulfilling his dream –to open people’s hearts with music.

In the process, Daniel’s life is transformed and so is everyone else’s. The difference he makes is potent.

Gabriella’s Song

In the movie, one woman whose life is profoundly altered is Gabriella, played by actress and singer Helen Sjöholm.

Here she sings the song Daniel was inspired to write for her. When you realize what this character has had to endure on a regular basis, you can’t help feeling moved.

Though the lyrics shows German, the singing is in the original Swedish. Understanding the words doesn’t really matter though. The passion of the singing carries the message.

I can’t resist sharing the link to a beautiful cover version in English. The young lady from England who sings this version blew me away with her voice. Please tell me what you think: Here is Gabriella’s Song in English.


In Closing…

It’s not easy to break free from the confines of your little self. Why should you? Because your very life is at stake. In your heart of hearts, do you want to live a shadow of a life? Fear, which masquerades as big, wants to keep you small.

Fear can serve a useful purpose. Its screaming and yelling can indicate a growing desire to bust out of the comfort zone! With a dream to fulfill, the comfort zone is the dead zone. Missing the boat with your life is no longer a tolerable option.

RELATED: How The Fear of Failure Can Keep You Out of TROUBLE

Be Bold Be Beautiful

Dreams worth-living-for, especially when they are cherished, are bigger than fear. With intention, earnest desire and loving guidance, it’s uncanny how courage you never knew you had will show up.

Believe in yourself and believe in your dream. Do whatever it takes to move forward. It is a task worthy of great effort.

I’d Like to Leave You with a Few Suggestions

Some things that continue to work for me, you might find helpful. Here goes:

  • Disconnect from negativity. Surround yourself with people who believe in you.
  • Create a mantra (especially for the hard times). Mine: “Whatever it takes is what it takes and I’ve got what it takes.”
  • Talk to God/Higher Self/Holy Spirit/Essence/Source Energy/Universe (choose what works), and hear what you need to hear! Doing this was sometimes the only thing I had to hold on to after the car accident in China.
  • Leave yourself encouraging little notes from God. Be creative. One I wrote: “I’m proud of you, Ramona. Know that it’s not just your dream; it’s mine too. I’m with you all the way. Loving you, God.”
  • Collect inspiring quotes. One from Brendan Burchard I like: Personal Freedom [is] the full expression of our true selves, the unabashed and courageous pursuit of our dreams.
  • Read The Dream Giver, Following your God-Given Destiny by Bruce Wilkinson–an awesome parable about “a Nobody named Ordinary who lived in the Land of Familiar,” who dared to “embrace his big dream”!
  • Imagine you are making the difference you want to make. You are an active player in the preservation of our planet. Savour the experience of satisfaction and joy!
  • Heed and then tell others: “It’s time to wake up, get over yourself and get your life! The world needs you — NOW!“.

Wake up have Got a World to Save


Here’s a kicker consideration. Imagine yourself on your death bed experiencing the pain of: “Why didn’t I do what I needed to do, what my heart wanted me to do?”

NOW: Imagine yourself on your death bed, experiencing the joy of: “It was all worth it. I did what I needed to do, what my heart always wanted me to do.”

May you choose the latter. Bless you on your journey!

About The Author

Ramona-McKean-author-and-speakerRamona McKean is dedicated to bringing about a transformation in world consciousness. She believes that transformation starts in the heart, where everyone’s own unique purpose resides; that when we live according to our purpose, we inspire each other. The result is positive change and greater beauty and light in our world! 


Ramona is a retired educator and author who lives in Victoria, B.C., Canada. She’s active with groups that promote friendship and positive change, whether it be travelling with a group of Canadian doctors in China or building a school with Maasai people in Tanzania.
If you’d like to know more about Ramona, or to read some of her inspiring blogs, please visit her website,A Bridge of Light. You can also visit her at Twitter, Facebook,  LinkedIn, Google+.

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4 thoughts on “Are You Missing the Boat with Your Own Life?”

  1. Wonderful post.

    As far as boat of life is concerned, I think I am not missing it but I am having hard time sailing it properly. I think it is because this is the first time I am trying to do something on my own, something that I likes. This is the only thing that is giving me strengtheness and I hope my project will be successful. #PAC

    1. Hi Bharat

      Welcome to my blog. It is so great to have you here.

      It is great that you are on he boat. With time, you will learn to sail properly if you are consistent and learn in the process. I commend you for going solo. It has a lot of learning experience that will benefit you in future. Trust.

      Thanks for sharing your insight. Take Care and have a wonderful week.

  2. Hi Ikechi,

    How are you doing? It has been a while!

    This post is brilliant!
    “Using your heart as a compass” really struck a chord man. Really appreciate your efforts in drafting this wonderful post.

    Take care!

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