14 Things You Will Learn From People Who Drive You Crazy

14 Things You Will Learn From People Who Drive You Crazy

Do you know that there are things we can learn from people who drive us nuts?

It is true that no one likes to be associated with annoying people who step on toes and push us to the wall.

Nevertheless, these kind of people cause changes in our lives. They make you to grow.

So what lessons can we learn from annoying people? Here are 14 lessons you can learn from people who drive you nuts:

14 Things You Should Learn From People Who Drive You Nuts.

1. Responsibility

You become accountable as annoying people make you responsible for your actions.

You understand that you might not change them or make them your project (If you do, they will drain your strength) but you can take charge of every situation  (be it an argument) and be calm.

You become accountable as annoying people make you responsible for your actions. Click To Tweet

2. Perseverance

Even though you are weary of the nagging and complaining personality. With time, you will learn to never lose your cool if you don’t give up to your attacking emotions. ; a tough skin that won’t be cracked by any form of pressure.

3. Confidence

When you are able to solve the problems of these kind of people, you will boost your confidence. If you can answer their presupposed difficult question, then plans become stronger.

4. Focus

You will learn not to be distracted by the baggage of these annoying people. You will focus on what matters and sometimes would have to work with them just to achieve your goals. That my friend is focus.

5. Creativity

Dealing with humans takes a lot of ingenuity. If you can master how to deal with conflicts, working with different personality sets and promote productivity in a company or business. You become a Gem.

6. Humility

Strangely, annoying people do make you appreciate your uniqueness. You come to thank your stars that you are not in their shoes.

7. Curious

You will see things from different angles and never assume or argue without considering all the facts. You will understand what they perceive of themselves and they will make you better understand yourself.

8. Love

If you can embrace love and see with its lens, then you will try to figure what makes them tick. You might discover that you sometimes are annoying.

So with empathy, you are able to feel and understand what it means to be annoying.

9. Appreciation

You will learn that there is nothing crazy about being pushed to the wall. Yep! you sometimes must express yourself. This is the beauty in being You. 

10. Self Control

Two wrongs don’t make a right (As revealed in #1). Life sometimes does not have to be a sprint.

It is not about who is right or wrong. So don’t try to use annoyance and relate with an annoying person; that just brings more rage.

11. Tolerance

There is supposedly a threshold in every man; you might want to discover your threshold or know to what extent you can sustain being calm and in control of your emotions.

Because in time you might be in charge of annoying people and trust me, you will be tested and tried. 

12. Being Open Minded

The most successful leaders are those that are very flexible. Rather than make rash decisions, they are more open and not so pushy.

They understand that relationship takes time to build so they will rather foster a relationship than demand authority.

13. Inspire

You will learn to either inspire people to greatness or push your colleagues to be angry, worn out, spent, and uncooperative. It is your choice.

14. Hate

How sad when annoying people get to you. You will despise them and wish that they were never born. 

It’s Your Turn

What lessons did annoying people teach you? Are there any strategies that you have used to deal with such kind of people . Please share…

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8 thoughts on “14 Things You Will Learn From People Who Drive You Crazy”

  1. Hi Ikechi,

    That was a wonderful post indeed with an apt image right on top 🙂

    Yes, there is a lot to learn from those who drive us crazy! I think they bring out the best in us – teaching us to be patient, forgiving, responsible, self control, and yes tolerance!

    I wouldn’t hate them though, knowing they are crazy..lol..but how’d I be able to focus I wonder though 🙂

    Thanks for sharing. Have a nice week ahead 🙂

    1. Hi Harleena

      Sorry for the delay in reply.

      I am thrilled by your comment. You must certainly are right. There is no reason to hate annoying people when there are other ways to handle them. As for being focused, you would not want to be distracted by annoying people.

      Thank you for sharing your insight. Have a nice week.

  2. Hi ikechi,

    This was a good read. You often tend to get frustrated by such annoying people and probably the most important thing that you can learn in the process is to stay focused.

    I personally feel that if you are focused on achieving something, the universe will conspire in helping you to achieve it 🙂

    Have a great week ahead!

    1. Hi Arpit

      You are absolutely right. If one wishes to achieve something great, one must weed out the negative response or doubt and the universe will definitely help you in achieving your goal.

      Thank you for such a lovely comment. Have a nice week.

  3. Hi Awazie, this is a great post and have gained somethings about people who drive me crazy.
    I gat to reason now with your points that its true they also help us.
    I have a friend who’s a Blogger, then he knows everything about blogging, went to him for assistance on blogging, he is just making jest of me and decided not to help.
    Then I went on with hardworking about this.
    Now am still not yet successful but not like before.
    Thanks for sharing

    1. Hi Hildee

      Thank you for such a kind comment.

      What a shame that such a blogger will do such a thing to you. No man knows all knowledge but the great thing is that there are great people you can meet that will teach you blogging. You are even in ABC which is a community that shares and cares.

      Thank you for sharing.

  4. As the saying goes, there is no such thing as a bad example! I’ve learned mostly, what NOT to do, or how I wanted to be different. It’s powerful, when you look at it or that person in that way!

    1. Hi Jacqueline

      Thank you for the kind words. I agree with you that all that matters is learning and making a change in one’s life. What powerful transformation when we see things just like you have mentioned. Thanks for the insight. Have a splendid week

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