Here is a Checklist Before You Consider Yourself a Loser

So! you think that you are a loser. You have got your mind made up that you are just worthless and nothing good can come from being you. OH REALLY! you feel most people don’t want to have anything to do with you.

You have been told that you are a nobody. Judging from all that has happened in your life which no can understand, you are starting to feel that maybe you truly are a LOSER. The worse is that you have even tried being clingy yet you are all alone. Maybe you really are a loser.

Now Hold on!!, just before you accept your presupposed destiny, please do take the time to go through this checklist so that you can ascertain whether you certainly are a Loser

1. You Are Human

Now I like you to think for a second if you really are human. Maybe you were not born like the rest of humanity; maybe you are different. You can look at this video below to be really sure if you are in doubt. If you are human, then I wonder why you are a loser.

Don't let the World force feed you with a Label that you are a loser. You are just amazing and this is the factClick To Tweet

2. You have So Much To Offer

Now that we have got that out of the way that you ain’t what people label you to be, the next question you need to ask yourself is what do you have to offer.

Do you think you have much to offer? Sure you do.

If you really believe that you can’t make a difference. How do you know for sure that there is nothing you can offer?

Is it because you are not a celebrity or maybe you are not a model or you have got no expert interview from any network or maybe because the world isn’t screaming your name in praise. What makes you feel that your actions can’t make a significant change?

To really consider whether you have nothing to offer, Read Making a Difference

3. You Have A Voice

Do you actually believe that no one is listening to you. Why?

Is it because your work isn’t appreciated? No one has given you credit for anything that you have done. Instead of praising you for your effort, you are brought down, made to look stupid and even mocked. No one seems to acknowledge you.

if this is the reason why you feel like no one is listening to you? Isn’t it possible that people haven’t noticed your work or that maybe you have the wrong goals when it comes to problem solving?

You should check this out; What Do You Do When No One Appreciates Your Work? You will know for sure that you do have a voice which matters so much.

4. You Can Succeed

So you have been faced with so much failure. You have been called loser so many times.

Does that mean that you can’t succeed? Is success a process or an outcome?

Has failure dealt with you so much that you are at the brink of surrender?

There is a saying that tough times don’t last only tough people do. If all you see is your failure then you going to miss the lessons from the journey.

You are not going take notice of what you have achieved during your failing process. All you are going to dwell on is that you are just a loser.

Just because you have failed doesn’t mean you are a complete loser, it just shows that you can adapt by making adjustments, learning and moving forward.

 

5. You have a Choice

if you still believe that you are loser then you have probably made this choice. Nothing ever happens by accident.  Every experience or challenge is stem out of a belief.

If you believe that your circumstances and situations control your emotions and actions. Then you are wrong! It is actually the opposite.  

If you are not controlled by your circumstances and challenges. If your emotions don’t dictate your situation, then how then  are you so sure that you are a loser.

6. You are an Inspiration

Here is the final check list, Do you believe that you can’t be a blessing to your generation? Do you need a big leap to make a difference? Is your little action of no effect to this world?

Maybe you are just despising your little beginnings. You are allowing the pressures of the world to make you stereotype and frustrate your creativity. If criminals inspire other upcoming criminals, then whatever you are is an inspiration to another. Just conquer your deepest fear.

Your Decision

Having looked at all this checklist, If you still think you are a loser, read this again but this time with an empty cup. You will realize that you are significant beyond measure.

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12 thoughts on “Here is a Checklist Before You Consider Yourself a Loser”

  1. Hi Ikechi
    Thanks for providing a significant post on “not to consider yourself insignificant”.
    We are human with our own voice. We have a choice because we design our own reality. Nobody can belittle us without our permission
    We must understand things with an empty cup by stripping off all the past in a free manner.
    Ya, it takes time to sharpen our skills. But, that doesn’t make us insignificant.
    Have a great week ahead, buddy

    1. Hi Yatin

      Thank you for the kind words. Love your point and you are right that our reality is designed by us. So true that even when it takes time to sharpen our skill, it is not an excuse to consider oneself so insignificant. Thanks for sharing Buddy

  2. Hi Ikechi,

    That was an inspirational post 🙂

    Your post sure can lift a persons spirits, especially those who think themselves to be insignificant or worthless.

    I agree with ALL your points, there is no one who is not valuable, nor is there anyone who is bad or worthless. Each one of us have got something in us, and that light lies within us cannot be taken away nor should we let it burnout, we just need to understand this simple fact. He made us who we are, and we ought to be proud of ourselves, and learn to appreciate our efforts, big or small.

    Yes, I loved the video when I saw it on Facebook too, so apt! Thanks for sharing this checklist with us ad boosting our morale. Have a nice week ahead 🙂

    1. Hi Harleena

      Thank you for the kind words as I am humbled by your comment.

      Yes the video was shared by Rohan and I thank him for this video. You are right that no is worthless and even though things might not happen the way we expect, we should be grateful for the progress.

      We are significant because like you mentioned , we are created to stand out. Thanks for sharing your insight. Have a wonderful week.

  3. Hi Ikechi,

    Another meaningful post from you that will certainly be a morale booster for a lot of people.

    We are all humans and everyone is special in some way or the other. Each one of us has something to offer to the world, no matter how small it is, can really make a difference. We should always have faith in ourselves and overcome our fears.

    There is nothing insignificant in the world. It all depends on the point of view. Thanks for the inspiring post. Have a wonderful week ahead 🙂

    1. Hi Arpit

      I love this statement “There is nothing insignificant in the world”. You are right that our views are what make us judge what is significant or not.

      As humans, we have what it takes to make a difference and stand out out as long as we believe in this truth. Thank for such a thought provoking comment. Have a wonderful week.

  4. Hi Ikechi,
    I am SO glad you are a writer I came across. Your posts have the quality to make anyone feel up and rise .
    This post is unique not because it serves as an inspiration (which it does) but because it serves as an guide to who we basically are. We are significant selves of ourselves ans thanks for making us reallise it 🙂

    1. Hi Swadhin

      Thank you for such kind words as I humbled by your compliment. I am glad this post inspired you. I love your statement about how significant we are. Have a lovely week. 🙂

  5. Hi Ikechi

    That was truly inspirational. If ever I had doubts about myself, by the time I was done reading the first 3 points, I would have changed my mind.

    Great video too. .Thanks for sharing. Have a great weekend.

  6. The past few days I’ve been just astonished how timely the topic if unworthiness and self-insecurity is. You’re doing a wonderful job inspiring people Ikechi! But somehow it’s just really sad that there will never be a a shortage of those who should pay attention.

    1. Hi Eve

      I do agree with Eve but all I can do is keep preaching the message of hope and inspiration. If one person can receive the light, others will eventually. Thanks for a wonderful comment. Have a great week.

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